One of the best lessons I ever learned came from my old boss. I was obsessing over a project, re-reading every line, fixing tiny things no one else would ever notice. He looked at me and said, “Stephanie, perfection is the enemy of good enough.”

I laughed at first, but he was right.

I used to believe that if I just worked a little longer, rephrased one more sentence, or found a better word, the final product would somehow be perfect. What actually happened was that I’d spend twice as long on something that was already finished.

Since then, I’ve realized that “good enough” doesn’t mean lazy or careless. It means knowing when something meets its purpose. It means having the confidence to stop polishing and start moving.

When I began to apply that mindset, my productivity doubled. I started turning things in sooner. I created more, worried less, and had the space to start new projects instead of endlessly tinkering with old ones.

Perfection is a trap disguised as excellence. The pursuit of it will keep you circling the same task forever. “Good enough” is freedom. It’s the permission to finish, to trust your instincts, and to keep creating.

Sometimes, done really is better than perfect.

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I’m Stephanie Iken!

I’m a Florida attorney helping families plan for the people, property, and legacy they care about most.

My estate and legacy planning practice is built around making the process feel clear, personal, and manageable. Whether you are creating your first plan, protecting your children, caring for aging parents, or thinking about what happens next, my goal is to help you make thoughtful decisions before life forces you.

I believe estate planning should feel less like a stack of documents and more like an act of service. A good plan can protect your family, reduce conflict, preserve your wishes, and give the people you love a clearer path forward.

When I’m not working with clients, you’ll usually find me practicing guitar, exploring local record stores, spending time with my dog, or listening to the Beatles.

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